I'm sorry but a sex toy that best suits every person does not exist!!! It is a myth and here's why.
The world of sex toys is diverse for a reason. It is because no one toy can best suit all people and their needs. The best and perfect sex toy is the one that works the best for your body and its needs.
People love different things and desire different things from their toys. Hence, it is will be almost impossible to find a toy that everyone likes.
But if this makes you wonder how to find the right toy for you, here is how you can get started.
Who is it for?
You or you and your partners. In that case, Bluetooth controlled toys, dual stimulation toys, vibrating panties, wands, vibrators, all can be a great addition for solo and partnered sex. Also, if it isn't designed for partnered sex, you might have to pull out your creative guns and adapt to the situation in the best possible way.
What are you going to use it for?
Vagina, clitoris, anus, penis, nipples, or other possible erogenous zones. This can help you choose toys that are versatile in their usage or specifically designed for a body part like clitoral suction toys are designed specifically for clitoral stimulation, while some vibrators are designed in such a way that they can be used externally and internally. Another feature to explore is the kind of functions it offers. This includes no stimulation, broad stimulation, pin-pointed stimulation, vibration intensity control, rotation, thrusting, and Bluetooth/Wi-Fi controlled.
Knowing what you want and how you want to use is helps in making the shopping process easier rather than overwhelming.
If you are a beginner and this is your first time choosing a toy, start with something basic like a wand or a vibrator that is versatile in its use.
Is it customizable?
Having a toy that can be modified according to your body shape, limitations, and disabilities is always something one can look out for. The toy should always be ergonomically feasible to hold and control to make sure the experience is truly pleasurable. You can also consult an occupational therapist before purchasing a toy as they can not only offer insights on choosing a toy but also help you customize it to your needs.
How much work are you ready to put in?
i) POWERED: Every toy comes with different power options like battery powered, rechargeable or mains powered. All three of them have their share of pros and cons which can only be evaluated by you and the place you will be using them in. Rechargeable toys are one of the most commonly available in the toy market as even an hour of charging can help the toy go on for about 2 to 4 hours. Some powered toys can be plugged in to the mains for charging if you ever run out of batteries, but not all toys have that option. As for mains powered toys, they are very powerful and you do not have to worry about charging or batteries. All you need to have is electricity and a power cord length that allows you to go places.
ii) MATERIAL: Sex toys are primarily available in soft and hard materials like silicone, ABS plastic, stainless steel or aluminum, wood, glass, TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) or TPR (thermoplastic rubber), cyberskin or flesh like materials, and PVC (polyvinyl chloride) which have different cleaning and storage requirements. Hence, purchase a toy only after assessing your resources and space. For more information on how to clean sex toys, check out the below infographic by PleasureBetter.
Lastly, before purchasing you can always find videos and blogs where the toy has been reviewed extensively by people around the world that can help you make an informed decision.
Now, think about what toy looks the closest to your needs? Visualize, explore and invest!
Sex toys are diverse because human desires and needs are diverse. Find a toy that comes closest to covering all the bases for you and make it the BEST SEX TOY ever for yourself.
Here are some global sex toys brands that I absolutely love and trust (not sponsored) to help you shop without any worries!
Happy shopping, sexuals!!